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May 12Liked by Ekstasis

I just read this essay for the second time. I loved it still and maybe more. That bear image will stay with me, but I pray that in time he becomes more of a panda and less of a grizzly for you. 😘

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I like that image of a panda.

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Karen, I finished this essay and immediately ordered your book. Blessings and solidarity to you.

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Thank you. That means a lot to me.

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May 17Liked by Karen Stiller, Ekstasis

I’m right in the middle of your beautiful book, Karen. Preordered a copy and now I’m enjoying it in audio through Everand. Love that I have both. I can’t tell you the hope and delight that is to have those thoughtful words spoken in your no nonsense voice in my ears. Reading this essay I found myself hearing your voice again in my head as I read the words. What a generous offering for us who write to receive your honest words processed through grief. Thank you ♥️.

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May 13Liked by Karen Stiller, Ekstasis

"Oh, well done, thou good and faithful."

Reading this (yet again) still triggers many a a pang amid the pleasure. So movingly candid, courageous, and compassionate. Thank you.

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I am so enjoying this deep and holy book--it is helping me see God all around. Blessings.

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May 13Liked by Karen Stiller, Ekstasis

Thank you for this, Karen. It was a joy to meet you at Festival and I have loved getting to hear more of your wisdom through your writing.

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May 12Liked by Karen Stiller, Ekstasis

Karen, I’m savouring your book. On the Church chapter now. Though I’m not a published author I do like to write. You are spot on, it’s one step in front of another especially as a fellow recent widow and former pastors wife.

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What a journey Karen-❤️🌷

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Friends make it easier. Like you!

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As a writing griever, this essay reminded me I can do both. I must do both. It will be difficult, but each one will enrich the other. And one day, when I least expect it, there will more behind me than in front of me.

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Yes. That is true Becky. If you ever want to talk about writing while grieving, reach out to me. I wish you all the best.

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